Have you ever found yourself asking... 

"Where are you, God? I need wine, stat!"
"It's too late, right?"
"This is just who I am, how it is, and who I'm going to be for the rest of my life!"
"I've tried, and I've prayed, and I fail... over and over again, so what's the point?"
"I'm just going to end up the old woman in the housedress... shuffling back and forth to the mailbox, once for the paper, and then later for the mail... (or Amazon if I'm lucky)."

...I get it. I've been that neighbor, but it's NOT too late.

I may not look it, but I was there... I. was. there.
And I'm here today to tell you that you don't have to be!

Together, I'd love to learn about your journey and embark on a new one with you!

Hi, I’m Tobie!
Resident dragonfly, pearl, and dragon slayer all wrapped up into one beautiful life.

But for years I was a MESS!!!

I was a mess of a wife, a mess of a momma, a mess of a grandmother, a mess of a daughter, mess of a niece, mess of a cousin, and a mess of a friend. 
but no one really knew that, not even me. 
I just knew I was sad, lonely, and tired, and oh yes, I almost forgot to mention I was also a mess of a Christ-follower.

It didn’t start out that way.

To most who knew me, that’s not how they saw me. I was an expert at covering my tracks... except to myself. 
I was painfully aware things were “amiss” within me.

 I was in denial of the extent to which my mess was messing me up. 

Sound familiar?


After years of beating myself up and believing there was something wrong with me I finally learned the truth.  There was nothing wrong with ME. And there is nothing wrong with YOU!

Now, I empower personal life transformation for the "older woman" as they come into their own personal courage, curiosity, honesty, and self-love to become the authentic and beautifully illuminated woman God intended. Believe me, it’s never to late to live life fully illuminated and free.

Alcohol is addictive. Alcohol Abuse Disorder It is not a character flaw.  You are not different.  You are human.  You are not powerless.  You may feel stuck and tangled like I did, but I can help you untangle your mess so you can live a life you do not want to escape from. 

Being alcohol free is the best gift I have ever given myself. Today I am living life fully aware and awake,  reconnecting with my loved ones, myself, and the world, and embracing my life with peace, joy and immense gratitude for God’s gift of being ALIVE!   

Let my journey help you make alcohol small and irrelevant in your life. We are not promised tomorrow so why not make the best of today?   Book a discovery call with me to get started.



1:1 Coaching
A coach that has been there, done that, is able to show compassion and understanding in ways that others cannot. I would love to work with you to achieve lasting results that are tailored to you and your life. Schedule a free 30 minute discovery call today!

Results Speak for Themselves

“I connected with Tobie and immediately felt comfortable with her. I knew I wanted her to be my coach on this new journey of being AF. She is honest, sincere, open-minded, compassionate, knowledgeable, articulate, affirming, resourceful - all of which makes her so relatable. I feel I can trust Tobie with ANYTHING and have found myself pouring out information (I've never shared before) in random bits and pieces or extended rambling. She always listens intently and then asks me questions to clarify what I have said or to further pique my curiosity. Tobie is able to succinctly sum up what I have shared and I find that play-back so helpful. She willingly provides handouts, worksheets, and other pertinent resource materials to assist me in delving further into related challenges or interests. I find myself processing our sessions long after the calls and receiving new revelations on an ongoing basis. I could not have asked for a more supportive and encouraging coach, instructor, advisor, and guide to be with me as I connect with myself and live my best AF life.”


 "Having Tobie coach me has given me hope and I have been without hope for so long. The connection for me makes all the difference in the world, knowing you have someone that is on your side but also knows exactly what you're facing is vital to my life and my journey and I sincerely can't imagine life without her!"



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